Greetings to you all! I’m coming to you fresh off a much anticipated court-date with big news! First off, I have said it to anyone who would listen I suspected things would go this way the entire time. The opposing party being granted temporary guardianship was not and is not a problem for me. The problem for me is that I’m being alienated from my niece.
In court today, to my surprise this person flat out said that she would not allow visitation and while it’s a low down dirty shame -it’s a wonderful thing that she admitted in open court her willingness to not let family be involved with my niece. I’m assuming she doesn’t know the entire basis of my case is that she’s alienating my niece and it’s in the best interest for my niece to be in my care because I won’t be alienating her.
But that’s not the reason I say audacity is at an all-time high. I say that because this woman dead ass said to my face that I didn’t really know my sister and she’s not really my sister anyway she’s my half-sister and we didn’t even grow up in the same house. Like GIRL. I couldn’t believe the audacity. My sister is my sister and if it wasn’t for the fact that our mother was MURDERED we would have been raised together.
Then she tried to again get me to sympathize with her because she knew my sister so much better than I did and was in her life for 17 years. Audacity. Again. No sympathy for me or my loss, just wants me to feel bad for her. Crazy.
Then after verbally assaulting me in the court hallway wants to (i think but i’m not sure) record me ask she toned it down and politely asked what kind of visitation schedule I want. So after being berated, and yelled at then she wants to calmly ask what what kind of schedule I want? I could sense the manipulation. When the deputies show up to stop the arguing all of a sudden she wants to be soft-spoken and agreeable?
It’s crazy how audacious people can be. But again I don’t want to dwell on it too much. I just want to kind of let it out a little. I’ve got so much I’m already holding onto I thought this would be a good way to let it go.
If you’re going through court document everything. Make declarations of everything. Submit all your documents. But most importantly don’t let little losses stir you away or upset you! Guardianship is a long battle. Just be prepared for the crazy!